For some people, nine months can go by so fast. But when you’re a neophyte mom in your first pregnancy, time can drag on so painstakingly slow.
The working moms need not to worry about this part, though. It’s hard to get impatient to finally meet your baby when you have work for a distraction. The experienced moms would just be glad to find extra time so that they can do whatever that needs doing first. But, this waiting game can drive first-time mothers nuts.
So, before you go bananas or your hormones take you somewhere dark, take a look at this list of productive things that you can do to while away your time that’s worth every second.
Think of baby names
One of the joys of becoming a parent! This may be easy for some, but thinking of the perfect name to give to your precious bundle of joys can be quite the challenge — especially if you’re looking for unique ones. So, it’s time to scour the internet or rummage through your books of baby names and start making a list.
Gender reveal party
This type of parties have been all the rage in the last few years. If your hands aren’t full, then this is a good excuse to gather everyone close to your heart together to announce that you’re expecting. Celebrating this news is good, but highlighting a gender reveal activity is better. It makes the occasion more exciting.
Planning a babymoon
Having a baby can really change the dynamics of your relationship with your partners. So, before a newborn rocks your world, now is the best time to spend some quality time together.
Designing and decorating the nursery room
Prepping a space for your precious baby takes a lot of effort. Which colour to paint the walls? What necessary items can fit in your small apartment? How to baby proof your home? And a million little things in between. So, hop on the Pinterest train, and start pinning your inspirations!
Baby gear shopping
Just like pregnancy, every baby is going to be unique and different. What works for one won’t necessarily be applicable to the other. One newborn might need to be held 24/7, while the next one can entertain him/herself in a baby bouncer. It’s gonna be hard to tell which particular item your baby newborn fully use, but getting advice from your mommy friends can avoid wasting money on items that will probably just gather dust in some corner.
So go on and start making a list which you think you or the baby can’t live without. And also start checking out various places where you can get them on reasonable prices.
Pamper yourself
Get more sleep. Get a mani and pedi. Colour your hair. God knows how hard it will be for you to find time to do these things when your baby arrives.
wow! I never heard of a babymoon! Haha Grear tips as always, Ate rio 💖
key XX
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Hahaha! The last few years saw a lot of expecting couples do this in the Philippines. But a staycation can do it for me LOL. Thanks, Key!
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Baby moon haha 😂 great idea!
You must be getting so excited!!
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Right?!? It’s the perfect excuse to just go on vacation LOL I am both excited and terrified at the same time 😝
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Lol yes any excuse for a holiday!
Yeah I’d be feeling the same if I were you, everyone’s experience is different!
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Love this post! Gender reveal parties are so fun! Also, babymoon is such a great way to bond for new parents too. I’ve never had those, but I will definitely look into them on my next pregnancy! Thank you so much for sharing, mommy Rio!
Mary
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Yay, glad you can relate to the topics here 😍 Yeah, babymooning is getting big in the Philippines 😝 thanks Mommy Mary 🙂
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No worries!!!! Yes it is, ang dami kong nakikitang nag bbaby moon dito hihi
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It will be a while until I need this but will deffo be bookmarking your blog for the future!
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Hahaha, thanks Laura 🙂 I appreciate it 😝
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Ive never heard of a babymoon! Something worth considering 🌻
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Pretty sure it’s worth it 😄 I’m getting sentimental now knowing my world will revolve around the baby soon and my husband has to take the backseat. Thanks for reading 🙂
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This is a lovely post 😊 I’m not a parent but I love the gender reveal parties & babymoon ideas 😊
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Mmmm perhaps, I should write cute and clever ideas for either one. Thanks for giving me another content idea 😝
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You should 😍 no probs 😊
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Interesting post! I’m not pregnant nor planning to be pregnant anytime soon, I think these are all great and productive ways to keep busy! My friend had her first baby and while she was pregnant she actually did all of these. She took a LOT of baby moons… 😂 Thanks for sharing!
Geraldine | https://geraldinetalks.com
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That’s very smart of your friend because the baby will take all the time we used to have for ourselves when they come. Thanks for taking the time to read, Geraldine 🙂
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Great ideas! The time goes so quickly yet so slowly at the same time! We spent soooii much time deciding on names!
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Exactly how I’m feeling. Us too, we’re still thinking of a middle name 😅
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The anticipation of the baby’s arrival will always be there, especially in the last trimester. For me it was very bad during my first pregnancy as it was hard to find a distraction. I experienced nausea throughout the entire pregnancy so I was ready for it to be over lol.
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Oh that was unfortunate. 😦 I was diagnosed with Hyperemesis Gravidarum (severe morning sickeness like Kate Middleton’s) but fortunately, it went away on the fourth month. But now, it seems some nausea is slowly creeping in again.
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Lovely post! Never heard of babymoon before, but it sounds quite fun! Especially if you don’t have any restrictions during the pregnancy, like constantly lying.
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Hahaha, that’s so true! It’s also hard to get somewhere when you waddle and not walk too LOL
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Spending quality time with your spouse before the baby comes is a must. Great tips.
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I agree 100% 🙂 Thanks for reading 🙂
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Beautiful post. I wish i’d had a list like this when I was pregnant.
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Thanks, Chantelle! 🙂 Pass it to your friends or bookmark it for your next one, perhaps? 😝
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Hahahaha well babymoon is my new favourite word now 😀 Great ideas Rio 🙂
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Hahaha cute right!
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